tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31898453.post115828511702691228..comments2015-03-07T08:06:31.337-08:00Comments on Notes on an Unremarkable Life: What I'm Doing and WhyJamiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08087184805800800931noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31898453.post-1158708616041257732006-09-19T16:30:00.000-07:002006-09-19T16:30:00.000-07:00I need that stroke that says, "I control you" beca...<I>I need that stroke that says, "I control you" because that stroke says to me, "I love you,"</I><BR/><BR/>Oh, how strongly I identify with that!!!<BR/><BR/>Sometimes, a few days go by when my Wife and I don't really talk that much. We are too busy and schedules are too hectic.<BR/><BR/>I do my house chores, but I start feeling down. Then, out of the blue, I am sitting in another room, working on something, and I hear her call me: "Come here, slaveboy."<BR/><BR/>It doesn't matter what her summons was about, but the mere fact that she calls me "slaveboy" lifts my mood. I am instantly kneeling at her side so she can tell me what she wants. When she calls me "slaveboy", it affirms her role as my Mistress --- it says "I control you," and I hear that, just like you, as "I love you."Mistress Laura's boyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03894777030938209489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31898453.post-1158368859603650822006-09-15T18:07:00.000-07:002006-09-15T18:07:00.000-07:00I bring it up because it sparked a slew of comment...<I>I bring it up because it sparked a slew of comments, starting with oldbear's sharing of the fact that "Sometimes my shame and desperation to be free of what I am almost made me suicidal." </I><BR/><BR/>Jamie, you might want to check out the first post in my series <A HREF="http://vanillaedge.blogspot.com/2006/09/when-someone-you-love-is-kinky-1.html" REL="nofollow"> "When Someone You Love is Kinky"</A> I've been thinking lately about how difficult it was for me to get this out in the open.<BR/><BR/>I've been reading your posts and thinking about how difficult it's been for you to bring this up. You've alluded to trying to do so 15 years ago. WHat happened with that? I'm asking out of curiousity, so feel free to tell me to MYOB.<BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://vanillaedge.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">The Edge of Vanilla</A>Tom Allenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04208222697436091267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31898453.post-1158322089039771502006-09-15T05:08:00.000-07:002006-09-15T05:08:00.000-07:00Almost forgot. Thank you so much for the link and ...Almost forgot. Thank you so much for the link and very nice compliment on my post about seducing a Woman to Her dominance. Glad you enjoyed it.<BR/><BR/>-saratogasaratogahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04923709936247956898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31898453.post-1158321949529686802006-09-15T05:05:00.000-07:002006-09-15T05:05:00.000-07:00Jamie-I neglected to leave this note on my previou...Jamie-<BR/><BR/>I neglected to leave this note on my previous comment, to your subsequent post. If that makes sense (I read them in the order in which they appear, latest first).<BR/><BR/>Anyway..... I do wish you happiness in what you are doing. And I truly hope that you are able to be content and fulfilled with whatever amount and kind of service to your wife- acknowledged service- that you can devise.<BR/><BR/>I don't want to hang black crepe paper and tell you how far you are from "real" submission, or anything like that. Goddess knows, there's so much more to life than even a really great D/s relationship.<BR/><BR/>Btw, for an interesting sidelong remark on that note, read Destiny's post from yesterday.<BR/><BR/>But, back to my thought....<BR/><BR/>There IS so much more to life, and if you and your wife are already at least content, and have some passion, you're probably ahead of half the married couples you'll ever meet.<BR/><BR/>If your path is to slowly gain moments of acknowledged service to and with your wife, then that's good for you, and you have some progress toward that which you believe you would desire.<BR/><BR/>I do believe we generally receive what is best for us, if we have good intentions. If you are not in a full-blown FemDom relationship, perhaps there are good reasons for that, other paths important for you to have taken- or someone else to have taken, such as your wife or children.<BR/><BR/>I try to make the best of what situation I am in, while doing what I can to make progress toward my goals. I'm sure you do as well. It's all we can do.<BR/><BR/>And you seem to be doing that. :)saratogahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04923709936247956898noreply@blogger.com