tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31898453.post4986514249833549407..comments2015-03-07T08:06:31.337-08:00Comments on Notes on an Unremarkable Life: Quick Update on Many ChangesJamiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08087184805800800931noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31898453.post-31298451514185509692010-08-19T04:25:56.433-07:002010-08-19T04:25:56.433-07:00Thanks. For the purposes of salacious reading, it...Thanks. For the purposes of salacious reading, it would be handy if there had been the moment where she had "called me in a told me how our life was going to work" or some such. And though that's many people's fantasy (and had been mine for many years), that's not how our real life works.<br /><br />We talk. We look for the way forward, we agree to try things, and we change them if they don't work.<br /><br />So the "discussion" is really all in the "What we Talked About Last Night" post.<br /><br />I seem to need little touches that affirm her interest in me and our connection, and reassure me that she isn't disgusted by the mental dynamic. "Kneel while using the computer" was one of those.<br /><br />Once our arrangement is a little more stable, perhaps I'll ask my beloved if I can post it.Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08087184805800800931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31898453.post-33744525854180038522010-08-18T15:36:17.967-07:002010-08-18T15:36:17.967-07:00I'm hoping for the 'discussion' and ch...I'm hoping for the 'discussion' and changes you're experiencing now... love the 'kneel while using the computer' btw! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com