tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31898453.post6831586101063594276..comments2015-03-07T08:06:31.337-08:00Comments on Notes on an Unremarkable Life: Back in the Saddle Again?Jamiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08087184805800800931noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31898453.post-68432216649266519242008-06-30T10:30:00.000-07:002008-06-30T10:30:00.000-07:00Thanks, AFH. As you'll see in the subsequent post...Thanks, AFH. As you'll see in the subsequent post, we are figuring out what works. I think if one can't get far enough out of one's own fantasies to see that things work differently in real life, then the prospects of doing this successfully are probably pretty slim.<BR/><BR/>JamieJamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15220401590544076155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31898453.post-81643187483700865562008-06-30T09:47:00.000-07:002008-06-30T09:47:00.000-07:00Great post.I agree with you that open dialouge is ...Great post.<BR/>I agree with you that open dialouge is crucial when figuring out exactly what your arrangement will be. You also have to both be very flexible as you find some things work and some don't.<BR/>My wife was very excited at first with a scoring system for my activities. She soon found that it was actually work for her and that she preferred just enjoying a clean house, not grading it. So she ended up dumping the system, even though it really appealed to her at first.All For Herhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06883152899405694318noreply@blogger.com