Tom Allen on why orgasm control is fun: Rat in a Cage
And on my fantasy about how orgasm control might happen in our relationship: Coming Together
but not unless we start talking a whole lot more.
And why am I updating this blog after basically 9 months of inactivity?
I don't know. But I do know that my obsession with sex comes and goes, and here it comes again. I also know that it comes back in different ways every time, and that every time it comes back, the more I talk about it with my beloved, the more progress I make on this. And that this blog is my way of not ignoring it, feeling guilty about it, or pretending that my interest does not exist.
So I don't know if I'll be posting a whole lot; I'll be interested to find out.
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